Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts

Sunday, June 27, 2010

The Jeju Hospitality

Jeju Island has always been representative of the sunnier side of South Korea, boasting of the most pristine that their beaches could get. The country calls the island their very own Hawaii, so summer is what’s supposed to define anyone’s vacation at the place. For mine ‘though, it was all rain and hospitality. It was a complete yank out of what’s typical and supposedly more enjoyable, but I may well pride myself of creating my intimately-crafted trips that are downright fulfilling.



I purposely went on the June 25 to 27 weekend because a friend who lives in Jeju will be spending her summer vacation on the said dates and offered her home to me. I therefore decided to bug her as she spends time with her family (haha, bad!). Her house in Jeju City is just fifteen minutes away from the airport, so the travel wasn’t that hard except that it rained as soon as I arrived in Jeju.

June 25 (Friday)
I sure woke my friend up at 10am when I called from down the porch of their apartment. But being the kind and hospitable Korean that she is, she welcomed me to her family’s house. My friend even offered me her very own room to sleep for two nights.

We immediately talked about how to go about my weekend trip, since the rain has sure wrecked my supposed trip to the beach and the famous Halla Mountain. I suddenly had no choice but to feast on the MANY indoor museums that the small island has. Anyway, my friend booked my Saturday on an official bus tour, thanks to her mom’s friend who helped us. The friend works in a local travel agency in Jeju City.

While my Saturday has been fixed, I still had the rainy Friday afternoon so off we went to the Jeju National Museum. Jeju, which by the way is the only special autonomous island province in South Korea, has a very interesting story. I found it amusing how my friend said that Jeju came about from a series of volcanic activity from under the sea, with lava pushing its way up, freezing and forming that island that is now Jeju. She said it also explains the famous black-holed rocks that can be found only in the island.

We then had snack in a tea shop where I got to eat 수제비. It's a Korean traditional soup made out of dough flakes torn by hand. The dough was very chewy and a bit heavy on the stomach. It's a soup normally eaten during the rainy days. I ate this with hot tea, of course.


A dinner and a yoga class came after the rainy historic stroll and tea shop visit. My one-hour primer on stretching proved how futile my body has become and how it will eventually take a toll on me if I don’t live more healthily. My friend was of course amazing. She might turn out inspiring for me, when I finally decide to take yoga classes, too. I am still thinking about it, though.


June 26 (Saturday)
My friend’s mother woke up extra early for me today so she could send me off to the White Beach Hotel where the tour bus is waiting. As I have mentioned, she helped me book a tour package in Jeju. It still rained this day so it became easy for me to give up on seeing a beach or the Halla Mountain. How the itinerary went was generally fine, I must say.

1) A Souvenir Shop. I ended up buying myself a sepia-dyed summer hat. I love!



2) A mini-horse track. I think this was solely meant to generate money from any tourist’s supposed exhilarating experience of riding… a donkey (toinks!). I didn’t buy the gimmick, though. A picture riding on horse shells out 30,000 won, apart from the riding fee. It’s a guided ride, since the track is pretty small. I found it too boring, and come on, it was raining.

3) A horse show. Pretty interesting, I must say, considering that it’s my first time to see one. The performers were Mongolians and it was nice seeing Genghis Khan’s descendants. The horse skills of these performers must be genetic. I’ve always had this picture of Gengis Khan mounted on his horse and holding his shield.


4) Ilchul Land. It is a family resort complex that owns a tropical botanical garden theme. One of its main attractions is the Micheon Cave. I will never forget how chilly it was inside. South Korean caves are actually cool, because they literally are. Haha. It’s a bit different from how caves are in the Philippines. There, the caves may not be “air-conditioned”, but the rocks and formation are as raw as it gets, and my, they can be genuinely beautiful.



I then worked on a solo flight to the famous Jeju Love Land, an outdoor, sex-themed museum. The sun finally showed up by the late afternoon (around 5 pm) so I was able to stroll in the said museum park. It’s a naughty place. I mean, it should get that way.


My friend then had to call me in the middle of the stroll to remind me about our dinner appointment with her aunt, who wanted to see her niece on vacation. I rushed my way back home and had eel for dinner.

The dinner was then followed by a night stroll by the beach. My friend’s father was kind enough to drive us to the sea and let us get some fresh air.



July 27 (Sunday)
The rain resumed today, but the family still went out do their Sunday service. The father who drove us the night before is a Protestant and invited me over this day. I said yes to the invitation. It was a solemn service that I just lip-numbed all throughout, but what I especially loved about the Protestant service is the intimacy of the whole ceremony and genuine fellowship that comes afterwards. I was the only foreigner in that particular service, so it was a little uneasy, but I hope I did justice to my lack of knowledge on the solemnity of the occasion by being quiet. I did not understand a single word because the readings were spoken using the Korean language.

After the service, the family treated me out to lunch in a buffet restaurant. It was fun eating with them and seeing their amazement with the rambutan fruit. They sent me to the airport afterwards.

It’s not always that we meet extra-ordinarily good people who would welcome us into their homes-- send us to the bus stop and drive us to the seashore. I may not get the summer sun that I wanted from Jeju, but I sure got the warmth from such genuine kindness and hospitality.


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Saturday, June 19, 2010

CCAP Caravan

“It is already one thing to be happy in the company of children; To be genuinely humbled by their hopes and dreams as I experience life with them is another...”

It may be because my stay in South Korea is already numbered, but for whatever reason it is, I find no excuse in not expressing my sincerest gratitude to UNESCO’s Cross-Cultural Awareness Program (CCAP) for including me in their roster of volunteers for this year’s caravan.

Not everyone is privileged to be at arm’s reach to what this diverse world has to offer, and the CCAP caravan is simply the perfect wheel to be close to where the most curious minds are willing to be opened. So armed with my curtain poles and plastic cups (yeehah!), I went onboard with the whole UNESCO crew to Gangwon Province for a two-day cultural immersion.


I have earlier met up and coordinated with my interpreter and co-teacher for this special cultural class, for there was just so much excitement that I would not want to put to waste. I had to remind myself that even though I will get the perks of traveling and seeing a new place, it is the students’ learning that I should put more weight on.

After four hours of travel, we finally reached the mountainous and foggy municipality of Dogye and headed to the all-girls middle school to prepare for our cultural classes. The bannered countries include Japan, India, Germany, Slovenia, Kazakhstan, and the Philippines. We were promptly welcomed by the school head and the teachers, and were even rendered a dance by the students before we went to set-up our own separate classes.


DAY 1- FIRST ROUND of the PHILIPPINE CULTURAL CLASSES

Richard, a fellow “kababayan” from Cebu, spearheaded the first cultural class. His jolly and funny aura sure drove the girls to a number of laughs. It wasn’t hard for our expert teacher-coordinator to connect to the students, given his fluency in the Korean language. Guided by his PowerPoint presentation, he showcased the Philippines through what commonly defines the country— monkey-eating eagles, yellow bananas, active volcanoes, and halo-halo, among many others. He also made the class interactive by giving prizes to correct answers to his short quizzes.

The class progressed from video-aided lectures to fun dance demonstrations that sure put my resourcefulness to the extreme challenge. The Philippines has long prided itself of its skillful and graceful folk dances adorned with equally traditional materials like bamboo poles and glassed candles. While these materials are a little hard to provide, the curtain poles for the Tinikling (traditional dance) and the plastic cups for the Pandanggo sa Ilaw (another traditional dance) served to be humble, yet extremely resourceful alternatives. The girls had fun balancing the cups on their heads and jumping over the tapped beats of the two poles.

HOME-STAY ACQUAINTANCE IN A FUN CAVE ADVENTURE
AND FOOD-FILLED TEMPLE STAY


After that first round of formal CCAP classes, it was time for everyone to chill and enjoy the rest of the afternoon off by going around the mountains and mists that define the province of Gangwon-do. School teachers, foreign volunteers, and local students joined together on a hike to the famous Hwanseon Cave. This was where I got to meet Haeri, my home-stay partner. Her family has been kind enough to offer their house for me and Yuree, my KIV (Korean Interpreter Volunteer), as we intended to spend the night at the province. It definitely made me enjoy the very steep monorail ride more, as well as the steel bars and stairs that we had to walk on inside the cave. It sure was a pleasure talking and bonding with my Korean student and new-found friend.

After the long and dark stroll inside the cave, our tummies were rightfully replenished by a mouth-watering array of ‘temple’ food. I have never really appreciated eating vegetables until I got to South Korea. No wonder monks in the temple live longer… it is because they live simply and they eat healthily.

THE HOME-STAY EXPERIENCE

The home-stay experience will probably be the most meaningful activity in the whole caravan for me, because I was showered with such generosity and kindness by a Korean family. Home-stays allow us to take a peek into the most mundane, yet genuinely-lived lives of families from a different culture, and let us understand and appreciate its uniqueness.

It was indeed a very homey abode, with a kind mother who prepared well for our one-night stay. After fetching and driving us to their house, Haeri’s mother let us use one of her daughter’s bedrooms (Haeri’s older sister’s room). She also let us eat small cherries, which she got from their backyard, as we spent the rest of the night sharing stories and experiences. I couldn’t be more thankful to have Yuree around to help me relay what I wanted to tell the mother and what I needed to say whenever the mother asked me questions. I also feel grateful for the interest that they showed in wanting to know more about my country just as well.

The night ended with a very much enjoyed and heartfelt talk with Hae-ri, Hae-Yon (older sister), and Yu-ree. These girls sure made me miss my own sisters back in the Philippines as we also used to curl up in the bedroom to have occasional “girl talks”. I would like to think that despite my little language handicap, I was able to get myself across in the same way that I get to sink their messages into my heart.

I mentioned about being humbled by somebody’s hopes and dreams at the beginning of this little story, and it is actually from the very strong-willed and independent dream of Hae-Yon to get into the best school for her education. There was just too much passion that dwelled into her. It must be from hearing Yuree’s own feat in getting into one of the best universities in Seoul, despite spending most of her school life in Daegu, a province in South Korea. The foreign face that she saw in me might also have contributed, in letting her realize how cultural diversity can go and how much there is beyond the foggy mountains that wall her Gangwon-do hometown.

DAY 2- SECOND ROUND of the PHILIPPINE CULTURAL CLASSES

There was littler time allotted for the second class which I led this time around. In trying to spark more interest from the Philippine culture, I shared some tourist spots in the country, discussed the connecting history between the Philippines and South Korea, and compared the lives of Filipino and South Korean students. The heavier themes were nonetheless balanced out by teaching the students a common Filipino game that they enjoyed. I have always regarded Korean students as generally shy, but it did not really take long before we brought out the perky sides in them with that game that prompted some ladies to shake their hips in front of everyone.

GANGNEUNG DANOJE FESTIVAL

We had to end our enjoyable overnight stay at Dogye Middle School, but the rewards to a successful cultural caravan did not finish too soon. The volunteers and CCAP staff participated in a festival in Gangneung, another municipality in Gangwon-do.

It was a fine Saturday afternoon that I personally enjoyed with my co-CEV’s and KIV friends. The festival was of course jam-packed with people who wanted to see a number of “sameulnori” performances. There were booths that gave visitors or tourists several Korean traditional activities to try out like fan, mask, and tile paintings. There were also free tteok’s and makgoelli’s for anyone who can wait for their turns in the long lines.

THE WHOLE CARAVAN EXPERIENCE

The whole CCAP caravan experience is a testament to such fleeting fulfillment of reaching out and contributing to a more open exchange and dialogue of life and culture. Apart from traveling and being able to set foot on a new place, there is that special kind of hype that comes with meeting people, making friends, and strengthening personal relationships. The cultural exchange volunteers (CEVs) do not only get to teach, but oftentimes, are also being taught one of the greatest lessons of their lives.

Thank you CCAP and UNESCO!

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Saturday, May 8, 2010

Seoul International Friendship Day 2010

I went out this nice Saturday weekend with a friend who informed me about this year’s Seoul International Friendship Day. I saw how this event turned out last year and it has been such a fun and memorable event, so it’s never really that hard to check out what’s in store for everyone this time around. The weather was so good today, too. It would be too sick to just stay at home.


It was held at the same venue as last year (Seoul City Hall)-- in that outdoor area in front of the Seoul Hotel Plaza. As usual, a lot of booths were set up though I must say that it has doubled this year. Unlike the previous year when each country had just one booth to showcase everything (food, clothes, handicrafts, etc), this year’s event provided for each country two separate booths for food and non-food (clothes, accessories, handicrafts, etc.) items.

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Friday, December 25, 2009

My Back-to-Pinas Christmas

How does it really feel like going home for the holidays in the Philippines? Okay, it’s not like I have been in and out of the country for ten or twenty years to fully capture this whole “homecoming” and “balikbayan” feeling, but I sure have my personal regard for this sappy home-country longings and returns…

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

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Saturday, May 23, 2009

A Taste of Egypt in Seoul

I went out today with newly-found friends whom I met from my most recent UNESCO stint, and the Seoul Friendship Fair that I went to a few weeks back. Fatima, the Egyptian lady whom Ate YY and I met at the city hall fair, invited us over at the National Museum of Korea for an exhibit on Egyptian Civilization.

It was an “all-girls” day-out, as I dragged another Filipino friend to join us, since we both had an affair to go to in the afternoon as well. So the group consisted of two Filipinos (Kat and I), a Chinese (Olivia), an Egyptian (Fatima), and three Koreans (Ate YY, Ms. Sophie, and a classmate of Fatima in the English academy— I forgot her name, so sorry!)

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Sunday, April 12, 2009

The Sunday Dress Culture


I have never really been the great Catholic devotee, but having been raised by spiritually-rooted parents and sent to an all-girls school that had to answer short, weekly quizzes about the Holy Bible, I don’t think it would surprise anyone if I show even the slightest effect of the Catholic influence in me.

And one great practice, you ask? Sporting a dress for the mass-- especially on an Easter Sunday. Whoot whoo!

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Wednesday, December 31, 2008

First December Holiday Away from Home

I check the last post that I wrote in here, and I thank myself that I have actually put a couple of updates on what I have been doing in this supposedly perkiest month of the year. It’s so ironic to think that it’s that time of the year in the office when the workload is not that many-- for anyone to do some extra things, yet I have never really mustered myself in filling this blog with updates. I mean, come on! It is December. It’s the time of the year when people get a bit lax with the serious stuffs that have pre-occupied them the whole year long-- and in turn get rowdy with all the merry-making activities of the season.

It would of course be a lot better if I were back home, for I’ll sure be getting more kicks to get oh-so jolly for the holidays. I sure missed home and my family whom I prepare the gift-giving practice with, as well as my friends whom I pig out and practically share the lovely season with. But hey, stop the longing. Fact of the matter is, I am in another place, and I ought to do the merry-making in my own independently creative way.

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Thursday, December 18, 2008

Dinner with my Sisters ;-)

Now I just want to tell everyone how my current stay here in Seoul has allowed me to create such surprising friendships that I could just hope will last even if fate will someday direct us to paths that won’t let us physically see one another. I mean, I consider this life that I trod now as temporary. I got here with a future that says I will go back to my birth country. But hey, I can never really tell.

I had dinner with wonderful sisters tonight— Lemons, Cha, and Park. The idea sprung from a cancelled dinner that was earlier called by another new friend, Karyn, who unfortunately couldn’t cook dinner for us tonight in her house because she was helping somebody transfer to another place.

I met them tonight at the Exit 2 of Seodaemun station, which will forever be a memorable place for me, for this is where and how I met the sister trio. Okay, a short backgrounder.

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Sunday, December 7, 2008

Snowy Christmas Party with Geniuses

It was snowing a great deal when I woke up with a pair of heavy eyes this day, getting ready to meet up with a friend at Itaewon for a Christmas party. I obviously slept late the night before, and my friend has apparently been sending me text messages a few hours before ten in the morning, when I forced myself up.

I then just remembered. A few weeks prior to this, an office colleague shared to me how the first snow of the winter season is a special day that most Korean couples look forward to, for they treat the first great snowfall of the year as THE giant mistletoe where they can “kiss”, and spend such sweet moments together. FINE!

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Saturday, November 22, 2008

World Cup Talk

New friends and acquaintances are just one of the many great things that you get when you are in a foreign land. There’s just that extra spike of confidence in you to reach out and mingle, and simply make the most out of the seemingly separate life that you create in that foreign world.

Now almost usually, you first run to people of the same fate as yours, and so you go and make that easy effort in meeting up with your own countrymen. They’ve always been friendlier, of course. Topics for conversations are not hard to find since you speak the same tongue, and you’ve breathe the same native air before leaving it.

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Monday, October 6, 2008

Bakit Bebot?

A colleague came up to me in the morning and handed me a sheet with a printed message on it. It read:

Magandang umaga
Hi, ------
Let me introduce myself.
I'm -----
I saw you on TYBS.
You work with ---- in Global Research Team, don't you?
He's my friend.
When I first saw you, I didn’t feel you are strange.
I stayed in the Philippines for one year.
I miss all about the Philippines.
It’s my second home.
I like to listen to Philippine songs.
I like Kitchie Nadal, Rachelle Ann, MYMP, and Orange and Lemons.
But I cannot understand some Tagalog songs.
So… I have a favour to ask of you.
Would you mind translating from Tagalog into English?
I am sorry to trouble you.
But I really wanna know what it means, and I will just ask two songs.
Is it OK with you?

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Saturday, August 2, 2008

Thank You



We all go through our own journeys in our own paces in life, and along the way we meet people whom we share all that makes the experience wonderful. They are friends whom I could simply be grateful for, and they are friends I now would want to dedicate some words to. To these people, I think you know why I am so overflowing with expression to each one of you. From the bottomest of my heart, THANK YOU ;-)

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Thursday, June 26, 2008

Visiting the Manila Cathedral

It was a rather full spiritual experience that really proved to be meaningful this day. I spent the afternoon with Mari, an Opus Dei friend, who invited me to attend Cardinal Rosales’ special celebration of the Eucharist at the Manila Cathedral for the feast of Saint JoseMaria Escriva (June 26), founder of the Opus Dei in Spain. I know that some of you may have heard of it at least once. Opus Dei is a Catholic institution whose mission is to spread the message that work and the circumstances of daily life are occasions for growing closer to God, for serving others, and for improving the society.

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Sunday, June 1, 2008

Baby Lovin'!

With how engrossed I easily become to such adorable kids whom I see outside, there is no limit to the things that I could do to show that special fondness to them. Like rounding this child’s eye with a surprise flashed shot from my digital camera.

Meet Amar, born to an Iraqi father and a Filipina mother. I sat beside him in a jeepney in Pampanga. Fair complexioned, high cheek-boned, with long, upward lashes. Quite tall for his age of just a year. So cute! And he was sporting a blue shirt with Bart Simpson in it, who is by the way my favorite cartoon character. It would not be so hard to tell where he got those beautiful features, especially if you’ve seen the mother who carried this child on her lap. Let’s just say, I initially thought she was Amar’s personal yaya. I may be mean, but it was what I really thought.

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Saturday, May 17, 2008

House Talk on Cold Cravings

One thing sure at this stage in my life: I am oh-so dying to meet up with old friends, catch up on a myriad of things, and re-assure those friendship rings! Yada!

Despite the rainy weather today, my college friend and I craved for ice cold stuff over at Icebergs Restaurant. She had her halo-halo while I had my banana split. That’s a sure colorful eating table that we had while doing our usual, girly chat. You could just imagine.

One thing with this rather coy lady that I have as a friend is how she never fails to ask for a glass of hot water as extra service-- in fastfoods, restaurants, or even those small carinderia’s along Dapitan, Manila back in college. She even asks for two glasses at times. Then I’d see her dip her spoon and fork in one glass, and drink the other after eating. Talk about living a healthy and clean life. Haha.

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Thursday, May 15, 2008

Short Hair and Friends

My new short hair sure perked itself up with accolades from people who thought it fits my face well.

“Bago ang buhok natin ah”- Boy “Onga! Bagay, bagay.”- Girl
From a cute couple whom I met the first time at an island trip, and whom I surprisingly shared the public taxi (aka, the mighty FX) with. Turned out, the guy lives in the same town as I do. Small world. Yet, we didn’t even have the slightest interest in knowing that in our first encounter.

“Uy nagpagupit ka! Bagay sa’yo.”
From my notes-freak college friend whom I had dinner with.

Teehee… thanks.

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